Gail Elaine Oklesson's Obituary
Gail Elaine Oklesson, beloved mother, sister, aunt, and friend, passed away in the comfort of her home on October 9, 2024, in Ocean City, MD from complications of cancer treatment at the age of 70 years young. Born in Washington, D.C. on May 20, 1954, she identified as a lifelong Washingtonian and carried the city's vibrant energy and resilience with her throughout her life.
Gail enjoyed a remarkable 40+ year career as a federal civil servant, contributing her talents to various agencies, including DHS, DON, DOA, ATF, GSA, and NSF. Known for her dedication and integrity in all of her professional roles, she made a lasting impact wherever she worked by always embodying a spirit of creativity and collaboration. She valued education, earning both a BA in Interior Design and an MBA from the University of Maryland, reflecting her belief in the importance of lifelong learning.
Gail lived her life by following her passions. She found joy in cooking, gardening, travelling, and voraciously reading, as well as in designing beautiful spaces. A true nature enthusiast, she loved to watch diamonds on the water, chase sunsets, and in her younger years hike the National Parks.
Her memory will be cherished and kept alive by her loving daughter Kelley Ann Oklesson and daughter-in-law Sarah Middleton of University Park, MD; her former husband Edward Oklesson; her siblings Bryan Singleton of Miami, FL, and Cheryl Vanderzwet of Burtonsville, MD; and her cherished nephews Jon Michael and Steven Vanderzwet, and Bryan St. Clair. She also held a special place in her heart for "The Radford 7," a cherished group of lifelong college friends.
Gail was preceded in death by her sister Patricia Singleton, nephew Roy St. Clair, and her parents Roy and Charlotte Singleton (née Greene). Though no longer in our midst, she leaves behind a legacy defined by her warmth, kindness, and enduring spirit. Gail will be deeply missed by all who knew her, especially her pup Dollie who has been adopted by Kelley and Sarah.
A celebration of Gail’s life will be held on November 23, 2024, from 1 to 6 PM at her home in Ocean City, MD. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the American Cancer Society at this link: https://raiseyourway.donordrive.com/campaign/Remembering-Gail-Elaine-Oklesson. Please contact [email protected] with pictures, stories, and condolences to be shared with the family and the memorial service if so desired.
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