I met Tom through Ed Shockley and John Zacharias in Rehoboth Delaware, probably around 1975. He stopped by a rehearsel at the Bowling Lanes when I was playing in a group with Ed and Billy Larsen. We hit it off very quickly, and talked music and literature and all kinds of things over the next year or two. Around 1977 or so, Tom asked if my girlfriend Betty, and I might like to baby sit his house and dog or cat for a week. We stayed there, out in the middle of nowhere (I have no idea where this was except it was in the Lewis and Rehoboth area), enjoying the quiet and trees and nature. I remember I was in a boomerang phase and went out into a field where I threw it, on this property. When Tom came back, he was laughing at me in the field, called me an aboriginie and asked if he could try. The athletic bastard threw the Boomerang and caught it on his first try! It pissed me off. We chuckled about it.
I had read some Hermann Hesse while staying at that house and Tom and I talked about a few of Hesse's books and how original the writing was. He always seemed well read. We both also bonded over Thomas Dolby after his first album "Aliens Ate My Buick". Years later, perhaps around 1990, I visited him in a Condo or something, and we again listened to a Dolby album, marveling at the colors and keyboard work.
In the late 70's, Tom became a keyboardist with the Jack of Diamonds for a short period, Again, a natural, learning our tunes very quickly, and using some hybrid keyboard he had back inthe day. He was one of those guys whom just seemed to be able to pick up anything quickly.
I regret not keeping in touch now. The last time I saw Tom was at John and Darlene Zacharias's anniversary before 2010, perhaps somewhere in Virginia. Tom will stay in my thoughts, and is part of my life, and I wish the best to his friends and family.