Bob or Bobby as he was known as a child and I were born 2 months apart and came home to houses about 100 yards from each other. There were lots of young mothers strolling their kids around so, many neighbors knew each other. Bob and I and our families became friends since our earliest memories in life. We developed a kindred spirit and bond that lasted our entire lives, even if we didn't speak for 10-20 or more years. On a first name basis with his parents, being there (several days a week) felt more like being with family, cousins, than friends. I loved his whole family and was deeply affected when his father Andy died so young.
Bob went to Catholic elementary school directly across from the synagogue I attended and we discussed our different experiences and religions often. Were were like 6 years old! We never argued. We were both just interested in the differences.
A story he liked to tell - We decided if I became Catholic just for one day, he would bring me to school as his show and tell! He remembered my father shall we say being less than thrilled with the idea in spite of my urging! I mostly remember we always laughed a lot when we were together.
Fortunately, I was in touch with Bob while Rita (mother) was still living and was able to express my special feelings for her.
When I think of Bob the first thing that comes to mind is "happy". An eternal optimist he always looked forward to what he was doing. A great attitude. He loved life and didn't take it too seriously. He could always find some humor. He knew a fair amount about Judaism and remained one of my Christian friends who understood and enjoyed Jewish humor.
Such a lovely human being. I lost a true brother. I will miss him so much.
We hadn't seen each other for many years and I was to go stay with him and Janice on March 4th for 3-4 days. We just confirmed it Friday afternoon and were both very excited. Then I got the call Saturday morning.
Bob will remain immortal through the memories of those who knew and loved him.
I wish the family the strength they need to get through these most difficult times.
Marc Sengin