Our Sister Mardee will always be cherished.
As is the case of a 1st born, parents instill a sense of duty and faith, and nature delivers resilience and courage and fortitude. As a giver, of herself to you, she would share openness and kindness, all her life.
Surprise, Mardee could sing and play the piano! Mother was assured by Sister Marie Angela, SM, that Margaret Mary, in 3rd grade, was a natural, shear talent at the piano. Thus, a piano was hauled through the 2nd flr front windows, for practice and culture, of course! Mother’s insistence took us from the paper keyboard on the kitchen table to a pure, awakening talent. My stint was much shorter but, I could dance. So, between the two of us, we were thrust into the living room to “entertain” many an unassuming guest, but always assured by loving Grandparent’s, Powell & Valentine, we should pursue our talents………. By the way, that cherished piano traveled from Phila., to Wynnewood, PA, to NY and NJ, because we all knew it rightly belonged to Mardee. And as for her voice, she would sing in the high school operettas, in college choir, at Mass, at a funeral, always loud and on key as she knew both music and the words.
One summer evening in OC, NJ, after dinner, since it was still light, and the three boys were playing on the dunes, and Cynthia was waddling around the porch under the watchful eye of Mother and Dad, we decided to take a final bike ride up and down Seacrest Rd. At the top of the road, we typically would race back to the house, but, not that night. In launching herself on the right foot pedal the bike lurched forward side-ways and she plunged into the gravel along the side of the macadam. She did a real job to her knee, crying in pain and temper that she would not finish the race as she had planned. Daddy drove up in the car, and we placed her in the front seat, leg extended, bloody and black w/pebbles, and off to Shore Memorial he sped. Emergency did what it could to scrape out the gravel but she carried that tender knee for years.
She could study with the radio blaring, was athletic on the basketball squad, liked to swim but not on the team, better in the Ocean, played not so friendly family badminton on the side lawn, made neighborhood girl friends, different than the girls with whom she attended school, and babysat siblings Friday nights, broiling English muffin pizzas @ 10PM. We watched Liberace and giggled at his flamboyance, prayed the family rosary w/parents to keep us safe from Hurricane Agnes, and then she learned to drive, fast, and it was fun.
Along came high school graduation, college, bridge between classes and graduation, a nice courtship with Mike, which too, included bridge, a beautiful wedding and three handsome and charming cherubs, who today, have their own cherubs. God is good, He does deliver if we believe and pray for His guidance.
So, until we are family again in Heaven, I love you and miss you dear Mardee, but, knowing that you have the joy of His Beatific Vision in heaven joined with Mike, Mother and Dad, Cynthia, Aunt Belle, Grandparents Powell, Valentine, Callahan, Divenny, loving in-laws Maud and Mike, Sr., extended family and friends, gives me peace, and may peace be with you.
Lovingly, Belle