John R. Ullom II's Obituary
On May 28, 2026, John R. Ullom II quietly slipped away, leaving behind gardens he lovingly tended, meals that brought family and friends together, and a lifetime of cherished memories. Surrounded by love, he passed peacefully after a long and courageous battle, finally finding rest and peace.
Born on May 7, 1946, he is preceded in death by his parents, Opal Ullom (St. Clair), and John R. Ullom.
John is survived by his beloved wife of more than 50 years, Catherine "Cathie" (Mruk) Ullom, with whom he shared a life filled with love, friendship, adventure, and countless treasured memories.
He spent his early years in Waynesburg, Pennsylvania, and graduated from Waynesburg College, where he formed lifelong bonds with his fraternity brothers. He proudly served his country in the United States Army.
John devoted 33 years of his professional career to Kmart, serving in management positions in several locations, including Buffalo, New York, where he met Cathie. Throughout his career, he earned the respect and friendship of colleagues through his strong work ethic, steady leadership, and unwavering dedication.
Those who knew John knew that his greatest passions were cooking, gardening, and bringing people together. Family and friends would travel miles for a Chef John dinner; his French Onion Soup was second to none! He took tremendous pride in his yard, gardens, and plants, creating beautiful landscapes that reflected his patience, creativity, and care. Friends and neighbors alike admired the beauty he cultivated around him.
John also loved traveling, especially to the beach and ocean. He enjoyed gathering with family and friends, playing cards, and sharing poker games with "the guys." These friendships brought him great joy and remained an important part of his life throughout the years.
After retiring 15 years ago, John and Cathie made their home in Lewes, Delaware, where they enjoyed life in a welcoming community surrounded by neighbors and friends who quickly became family.
John will be remembered for his quiet strength, warm heart, dedication to family and friends, and the beauty he brought into the lives of those around him. His legacy lives in the memories he created, the friendships he cherished, and the gardens he lovingly tended.
In addition to his wife, Cathie, John is survived by his daughter, Susan Hasenauer; granddaughters, Gabby and Mia; sister-in-law, Mary Lou Voytovich (Paul); brothers-in-law, Lawrence Mruk, (Sandra); John Mruk (Cindy); and Mark Mruk (Paula); as well as many beloved nieces, nephews, great nieces, great nephews, and dear friends who were like family.
The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to the caregivers, medical professionals, hospice team, friends, and loved ones who provided support, compassion, and comfort throughout John's illness.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Beebe Medical Foundation https://www.beebehealthcare.org/beebe-medical-foundation/donate.
A casual "Five O'clock Somewhere" Celebration of Life, will be held at Irish Eyes Pub & Restaurant, 213 Anglers Rd, Lewes, DE 19958, on June 19, 2026, from 12:30- 3:30 pm. Family and friends are invited to come as they are, raise a glass, share memories, and celebrate a life well lived.
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