Allen Benjamin Parsons, Jr.'s Obituary
Allen Benjamin Parsons Jr. (AKA "Possum")
September 16, 1958 – November 22, 2024
Allen Benjamin Parsons Jr., lovingly known as "Possum," passed away unexpectedly on November 22, 2024. Allen was a simple man with a big heart, remembered for his deep love of family, football, farming, the outdoors, and his community. Known for his quiet yet steadfast nature, he made a lasting impact through his unwavering commitment to service.
A proud graduate of Laurel High School and the Delaware State Police Academy, Allen began his career in public service with the Laurel Police Department. He later joined the Bridgeville Police Department, where he retired as Chief of Police.
Allen also devoted 27 years to the Delaware Fire Service. Starting at the Laurel Fire Department, he spent the next 24 years serving the Bridgeville Volunteer Fire Company in many capacities, including President, Vice President, NREMT-B, and Delaware State Fire School Instructor. His dedication to safety and education left an enduring legacy in his community.
Beyond his professional and volunteer roles, Allen was an active and proud member of the Seaford Moose Lodge and the Bridgeville Kiwanis Club. His leadership and sense of humor enriched the lives of many, bringing camaraderie and support to those around him.
Allen is survived by his loving children: Bruce (Jen) Parsons, Michael Parsons, and Heather (A.J.) Davidson; eight grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren. He also leaves behind his brother, Brian (Amy) Parsons, along with several nieces, nephews, and extended family. He was preceded in death by his parents, Allen and Louise Parsons; his son, Gary Lee Parsons; and his sister, Sue Parsons.
Known for his stubborn nature and rare, yet unforgettable, smiles, Allen's warmth and dedication were evident to all who truly knew him. His legacy of service, his love for his family, and his quiet strength will be forever cherished by all whose lives he touched.
Services with Firefighters Honors will be held on Sat. Nov. 30, 2024, at 1 PM at the Parsell Funeral Homes & Crematorium, Hardesty Chapel, 202 Laws Street, Bridgeville, DE where viewing will begin at 11 am.
Contributions are suggested to the Bridgeville Vol. Fire Company, PO Box 727, Bridgeville, DE 19933
Please sign Allen’s Life Memorial at this site.
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