I was honored to offer this poem at Alan's service. He took it to heart when I recited it at my dad's funeral in July 2002. Harry Frazer and Alan truly understood each other.
FLIGHT TO FREEDOM, BY RABINDRANATH TAGORE
My love, my heart
Let his time of parting be sweet.
Let it not be a death, but completeness.
Let your love melt into memory
And your pain into songs.
Let your flight through the sky
Begin with the unfolding of wings.
Let the last touch of your hands
Be gentle, like the flower of the night.
Stand still, oh beautiful Love, for a moment
And say your last words in silence.
I bow to you and hold up my candle
To give light to you on your flight to freedom. ’